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You and Me and HSV

A safe place to land after a STI diagnosis 

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Meet the face behind
You and Me and HSV

Hi, I’m Michelle. I'm a sexual health nurse and I’ve spent over a decade in the world of sexy health. I've worked as a sexual health nurse in STI and HIV clinics, contributed to STI cure research and am forever doing my little bit to break down the stigma surrounding sexual health. 

Over the years, I’ve noticed something important: while the physical symptoms of STIs and other infections are easily treated or manageable, the stigma, shame, anxiety, and confusion are what often hurt people the most. And I’m here to help change that, one conversation at a time. I created You and Me and HSV because the "aftercare" of a diagnosis is so often missing. I wanted to build a safe, non-judgmental space where you can get accurate facts and real support, so you can stop spiralling and start feeling like yourself again.

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Why trust me?

I’ve seen it all!
After spending over a decade in the industry, nothing surprises me, and nothing you say will ever make me judge you.
 

I’m a "Sexual Health Geek"!
I’m obsessed with the science. Not only can I can talk your ear off about Mycoplasma Genitalium or Bacterial Vaginosis for hours, but I can translate complex medical jargon into plain, easy-to-understand English for you.
 Everything we say here at You and Me and HSV is evidence based and backed by current Australian STI guidelines. 

 

I prioritise your peace of mind.
My goal isn't just to give you a pamphlet; it’s to have you laughing and feeling confident instead of overwhelmed. Yes, that includes getting you back to a sex life you enjoy! 

 

I’m comfortable admitting when I’m not sure, or I don’t know:
If I don’t know the answer to something then I’ll help you find it, or refer you on to someone who can help.

My promise to you

This is a safe space for everyone, regardless of your gender, sexuality, culture, or profession. Your health and your story are respected here, always.

The boring, but important legal stuff

You and Me and HSV offers emotional support, education and general wellbeing guidance  concerning sexual health topics. We are not a medical, psychological or psychiatric service and do  not provide diagnosis, treatment or prescriptions. Our service is not suitable for emergencies. For medical questions or symptoms, please consult a registered health professional. If you are in crisis or at risk, call 000 or contact Lifeline on 13 11 14.

You And Me And HSV acknowledges that nothing in
these terms limits your rights under the Australian Consumer Law.

Our Story

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You and Me and HSV

A safe place to land after a STI diagnosis 

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This is an old photo of me attempting to hide my facial HSV from the camera. I very rarely get outbreaks anymore - but when I do I no longer try and hide it!

Meet the face behind You and Me and HSV

Hi, I’m Michelle. I'm a sexual health nurse and I’ve spent over a decade in the world of sexy health. I've worked as a sexual health nurse in STI and HIV clinics, contributed to STI cure research and am forever doing my little bit to break down the stigma surrounding sexual health. 

Over the years, I’ve noticed something important: while the physical symptoms of STIs and other infections are easily treated or manageable, the stigma, shame, anxiety, and confusion are what often hurt people the most. And I’m here to help change that, one conversation at a time. I created You and Me and HSV because the "aftercare" of a diagnosis is so often missing in busy clinics. I wanted to build a safe, non-judgmental space where you can get accurate facts and real support, so you can stop spiralling and start feeling like yourself again.

Why trust me?

  • I’ve seen it all!
    After spending over a decade in the industry, nothing surprises me, and nothing you say will ever make me judge you. 
    Everything we say here at You and Me and HSV is evidence based and backed by current Australian STI guidelines. 

  • I’m a "Sexual Health Geek"!
    I’m obsessed with the science. Not only can I can talk your ear off about Mycoplasma Genitalium or Bacterial Vaginosis for hours, but I can translate complex medical jargon into plain, easy-to-understand English for you.

  • I prioritise your peace of mind.
    My goal isn't just to give you a pamphlet; it’s to have you laughing and feeling confident instead of overwhelmed. Yes, that includes getting you back to a sex life you enjoy! 

  • I’m comfortable admitting when I’m not sure, or I don’t know 
    If I don’t know the answer to something then I’ll help you find it, or refer you on to someone who can help.

My promise to you
This is a safe space for everyone, regardless of your gender, sexuality, culture, or profession. Your health and your story are respected here, always.

The boring, but important legal stuff

You and Me and HSV offers emotional support, education and general wellbeing guidance  concerning sexual health topics.

We are not a medical, psychological or psychiatric service and do  not provide diagnosis, treatment or prescriptions. Our service is not suitable for emergencies. For medical questions or symptoms, please consult a registered health professional.

If you are in crisis or at risk, call 000 or contact Lifeline on 13 11 14.

You And Me And HSV acknowledges that nothing in these terms limits your rights under the Australian Consumer Law.

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